Monday, December 23, 2013

Grief

There are several people who will be missing and grieving for loved ones who left them this year.  I know several people in my local area who will be going through this emotional time of loss.  It's not easy to go through the loss, and at this time of year the memories become paramount with the one's left behind.  Our prayers go out to those families and friends who are living in this trauma this year.  God be with them and give them the inner peace which passes all understanding........


Your Ways

Seek ye the Lord while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the Lord, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon. For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.
Isaiah 55:6-9

Thursday, December 19, 2013

JESUS IS BORN



Jesus is the Reason

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For unto you is born.................
And she brought forth her first born son..................


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An laid him in a manager..............

NATIVITY Pictures, Images and Photos
Glory to God in Highest and on earth.......... Peace good will to all men.
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Wednesday, December 18, 2013

Ray Price

I wish to place this here as a memorial to the great Ray Price during the time of his passing........

Arise Take the Child

And when they were departed, behold, the angel of the Lord appeareth to Joseph in a dream, saying, Arise, and take the young child and his mother, and flee into Egypt, and be thou there until I bring thee word: for Herod will seek the young child to destroy him. When he arose, he took the young child and his mother by the light, and departed into Egypt: And was there until the death of Herod; that it might be fulfilled which was spoken of the Lord by the prophet, saying, Out of Egypt have I called my son.
Matthew 2:13-15

3 Wise Men

Now when Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judea in the day of Herod the king, behold, there came wise men from the east to Jerusalem, Saying, Where is he that is born King of the Jews? for we have seen his star in the east, and are come to worship him. When Herod the king had heard these things, he was troubled, and all Jerusalem with him. And when he had gathered all the chief priests and scribes of the people together, he demanded of them where Christ should be born. And they said unto him, In Bethlehem of Judea: for thus it is written by the prophet, And thou Bethlehem, in the land of Juda, are not the least among the princes of Juda: for out of thee shall come a Governor, that shall rule my people Israel. Then Herod, when he had privily called the wise men, inquired of them diligently what time the star appeared. And he sent them to Bethlehem, and said, Go and search diligently for the young child, and when ye have found him, bring me word again, that I may come and worship him also. When they had heard the king, they departed; and , lo, the star which they saw in the east, went before them, till it came and stood over where the young child was. When they saw the star, they rejoiced with exceeding great joy. And when they were come into the house, they saw the young child with Mary his mother, and fell down, and worshipped him: and when they had opened their treasures, they presented unto him gifts; gold, and frankincense, and myrrh. And being warned of God in a dream that they should not return to Herod, they departed into their own country another way.
Matthew 2:1-11

Thursday, December 12, 2013


3rd Grade


I  remember these days with the innocence that a young child has during those times.  I thought the world was full of good things and that the future was going to be wonderful.
In this picture I was wearing a dress made for me by my grandmother.  It looks as though my hair was pulled back and secured with a barrette.  On the right is Michael Green and on the left is Earl Smith, wow, I can remember them after all these years.

The Law

In any country you must have a form of legal entry to stay any length of time.  Moving to our country takes legal papers, when the people want to stay and work.  They need to get help through  abogado de inmigracion  to make certain they are free from any laws that restrict their actions.  I'm sure they can get the assistance they need to obtain these legal documents if they click on the above link in this post.

Mom and Me

 I was probably 5 yrs. old in this picture, and it was taken out front of the old house on Hwy. 66.  It all seems so distant to me, since Mom is now gone and I am 69.  Memories take on a new meaning as I look at the old pictures.  I realize that someday, my children will be doing the same.  I hope they have some good memories of me.  That would mean I did something right.

Tuesday, November 26, 2013

Food


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The story on the news, is telling us that there are many people going without food, lately. It's my concern that we as the American people, need to rally and help our fellow citizens who are in need. Since our government isn't doing much to help, we need to follow up on the needs in our own towns and states.

So True.....

'WE REAP WHAT WE SOW.'

Funny how simple it is for people to trash God and then wonder why the world's going to hell.
Funny how we believe what the newspapers say, but question what the Bible says.
Funny how you can send 'jokes' through e-mail and they spread like wildfire but when you start
sending messages regarding the Lord, people think twice about sharing.
Funny how lewd, crude, vulgar and obscene articles pass freely through cyberspace,
but public discussion of God is suppressed in the school and workplace.
Are you laughing yet?
Funny how we can be more worried about what other people think of us than what God thinks of us.

Please Send Me.........

You are invited to send me your "letters to heaven", and I will post them, anonymously with a nickname or which ever name you wish to sign it with. Your identity will be protected. I will send you back the URL it's posted to, for your observation. As always, your invited to come back to this blog and read as often as you wish. Have a great day.......

Thursday, November 21, 2013

So Many

Recently I've been seeing a ramdom amount of people I know who are passing on. It's disturbing to know that one day I will be counted in one of the obits. I often wonder if we realize how quickly the time has slipped by? To me it was only yesterday that I was so young and innocent. Here I am today, with silver hair and wrinkles. I actually lived this long compared to others not so lucky.

Tuesday, November 12, 2013

Atheist Churches?


You haven't seen it all yet.  It's just the beginning and we all know what it means. Poor people.  I feel really sorry for these souls, who don't know what's happening to them.

Friday, November 8, 2013

Slide Show at Matt's Service


Sometimes it only takes one person's life to show us the way......RIP Matt ......God bless your life.....

Friday, November 1, 2013

Dear Matt


Matthew Mickelson Butman

 

Although I never met you or your family, I've watched the stories and updates through the last 3 or 4 years.  You have been a very great inspiration to all whom your spirit and existence touched.  I saw the pictures of you in your room and read your many updates during your short life.  I watched as your family searched for the strength, peace and comfort during your bad bouts with this disease.  Now, that you are gone I know they will miss you and wonder if there will ever be a cure to what has taken two of their sons?  May God rest your sweet soul and give your family peace.
Every time I would get down and start feeling sorry for myself, I would remember you were over there just a few miles away trying to hold on to what life you had left.  I felt no pity for myself and thanked God that your short sweet life touched me as well as many others around the world.  Go with God, Matt and RIP........
Condolences to all family and friends of this sweet boy.......Heaven has another angel....

Monday, October 28, 2013

Look It Up

It's come down to the fact that we can shop online for most anything.  I know that there are many websites where you can go when looking for  certain parts and supplies.  If you need to fill an order for on the job parts and supplies then I suggest shopping at the website linked under the link in this post.  You will find a wide array of products to choose from.

Dear Tom

Today, you were laid to rest in the DFW National Cemetery here in the Dallas, TX area.  It's free to soldiers who served their country during an overseas active duty.  I wasn't able to make it there to give my respects, but I am in hope that there were plenty of people in attendance.  It wasn't a good time I'm sure but even with your cremation I sufficed for the final needs.  RIP and I know you are in a better place.
Sincerely,
Nita

Wednesday, October 16, 2013

Job Loss

There's always someone who gets the golden egg while you work your tail off trying.  Finding that they under cut you and took your job is even harder on the ego.  You will need to find a Wrongful Termination Attorney San Diego  when you are in the living area of California.  It's never easy to loose a job, but under those circumstances, I'd say some help is needed.

Monday, October 14, 2013

Update on Friend

Unknown to my source of  information about my friend, it seems that the very day she was informing me of his bad health situation, he actually passed away.  I hated to hear that since this person lived alone and that makes anyone sad, when things like this happens. 
I'm one who will miss his position at a certain establishment, because he was a "fixture" so to speak.  Many who knew him well will miss him for years to come.
So long Tom........RIP

Saturday, October 5, 2013

Dear Friend

I learned from an acquaintance that an old friend I've known for years is in very bad health.  I was told that this friend, has been having many health problems recently and as of last week suffered a stroke.  The down hill slide is looking to be his demise.  This is not good, and I'm sure he isn't too happy being in the shape that a stroke leaves you in.  It is my hope that he will recover and be healthy once again.  We can only hope and pray for him, since I've not been in contact with him recently and don't know where to look should he become able to receive visitor's.  Prayers for you Tom.

Monday, September 16, 2013

DC Navy Yard

Another tragedy happened today, which once again was a senseless act of cowardliness.  Several people were injured and 12 lost their lives as a result of this violence.  Only a few miles away, my son works for one of the shipyards, and it could have happened there.  I thank God for his protecting hand where my son is concerned.  I pray his comfort to all those who lost loved ones and to those who have been injured.  It is my hope the other person, who is considered a shooter, will be caught and put to justice.  My condolences to all who were involved and all who will be affected in the next few months, because of this traumatic event.

Wednesday, August 28, 2013

Word Has It

I've been getting a view point from a distant associate about my youngest daughter.  It is the fact that she is trying to do better than in recent years.  It is my hope she will keep this turn around positive and move forward with the new way she is starting to build on.  The old life she chose was not good for her or anyone who came in contact with her.  Maybe some way she will be able to gain back respect for herself in her own mind and way.

Monday, August 26, 2013

Mom

Today, would have been Mom's 88th birthday.  She passed away "Easter Sunday Night" this year, and took with her a tremendous amount of knowledge and experiences.  I can't fathom some of the things that she could have gone through during her life.  I can only hope that she felt good about the way she lived it and the people she chose to involve in it.
If I can say anything to you that would suffice for the way I feel, it would have been to know you better, and have a better, more loving relationship with you than what we had.  I can only tell you that I am sorry you are gone and that I wish our visits could have been more.
Rest in Peace,
Your daughter,
Kaye

Each Day

Living daily by the seat of your pants is becoming a way of life.  Learning to believe and trust in things to happen according to the way their supposed to is a test.  Humans aren't as able to do this in the world where we exist.  We find ourselves wanting to hurry things along a bit in order to take off some stress.  Many times all we do is cause ourselves more worry and stress, by taking matters in our own hands.  When I stay back and wait for God's help.  Things fall right into place just as they were meant to.  I hope that I can do this more often and keep as much stress out of my life as possible.

Legal Help

In each state you find different laws concerning the effects that loosing one's job can cause.  Pennsylvania has laws which you will need to understand if you live in the area and are considering filing.  The pennsylvania bankruptcy laws  are unique to other states and you will want a competent lawyer to assist with your case.  Information can be found by clicking on the link in this post.

Saturday, August 10, 2013

Life

While on one of my social networks, I noticed a post from an old acquaintance.  It was about his daughter holding on and not giving up as yet.  This is a sad moment for him I'm sure.  No one expects one of their children to go before them.  He thanked everyone for their prayers and best wishes, and asked for all to pray for her peace and comfort during this time.  I know that the "end of life" for anyone is a rough time to be had by family and friends.  Seeing someone you love suffer is grueling and painful.  We can find the strength and comfort from only one source and that is our God.

Wednesday, July 31, 2013

Questions

Every time I embark on a new endeavor, there are questions in my mind of priorities,  How often do we find ourselves in this position?  As often as possible I try to stay back and let God handle this.  Being human is a very hard thing to do and still be able to let God handle things for my good.  Prayer has gone into this new venture and my hope is to let go and let God handle anything that happens.

Friday, July 26, 2013

My Thanks

Once again I stand in awe of our great wonderful God, and how he helps us before we know it.  It doesn't take long to know that if you let him, he will take full control and everything will work out exactly right.  I am thankful for his hand in my situation with my eyes.  Seems I've already got enough money saved up for the out of pocket expenes after Medicare pays off. I was worried that I would be having to scrimp to save up for the second eye, but now I won't..

Tuesday, July 16, 2013

Gloves

In many lines of work the industry has to maintain the physical nature of many jobs.  Warehouse, construction and other labor jobs are some that will be found using g-tek gloves  for protection and safety. I have used such gloves when working in a warehouse and was thankful to have them during that grueling job.

Tuesday, July 2, 2013

Trust

How often do we get caught up in life to the point of loosing our perspective?  Troubles start happening and it seems they overwhelm us.  Finding a solution isn't easy for our human minds.  Here we find the often falling apart trend.  We feel all hope is lost, and depression sets in.  So, often we are dealing with the human aspect of the situation and not relying on the almighty power of our Lord to maintain and control the situation. 
This last weekend was prime example of what I cannot fix on my own.  What I thought was lost, became more solid than my expectations could have assumed.  What became a sad situation, that I was trying to deal with, turned into a show of the wonders and works of our Lord's mighty hand.  Today, there is a calm that passes all understanding and makes the situation "a good thing".  Thank you Lord, for being that wonderful "control being" in the midst of my situations.

Monday, June 17, 2013

Styling?

You see most young people with their shades on when it's not needed.  It's a trend to wear them and if they are ray ban shades  then that's acceptable in the fashion scene.  You can see a person get up tight when they consider they have lost their pair of shades.  I think the price might have something to do with that.  If would be a factor for me.

Rain

I woke up to wind, thunder and rain hitting the house.  It will be nice for the lakes, since most of them are down.  It kept me from mowing the yard, after weeks of telling myself, "I'll do it tomorrow".  Will give the grass 2 days to dry out and then try to get motivated once again.  There is now a dire need to get it done, grass is growing fast.

Mold

A water leak or even a flooded can be devastating when it comes to clean up and repairs.  Many times after the building's structure has dried out, certain areas can develop mold.  This is when you need help with detection and removal.  You can shop mold killer here   by clicking on the link in this post. Information will be ready for your interest.

Thursday, June 6, 2013

Good with Bad

A true statement written in the word of God, is "through all things there with be content".  Years of fighting this and wanting my own way cause much turmoil, unhappiness, pain and sorrow.  I never was satisfied with life as it came to me.  I wanted more, because I thought I deserved more.  Sounds like a spoiled rotten brat, doesn't it?  In some ways yes, I was.  In other ways, I was a deprived individual who sort for some relief from the life I was living.
As I said, after all these years, I come to see that whatever I'm going through isn't as bad as what others are going through.  Counting my blessings helped with that problem.  Today, I can be thankful for many things, even in the midst of a life storm.  Living life, getting older and seeing the places I could be, have helped me get through this phase in my life.  I can now be content with my life and be thankful for all the good that has been given me.

Covers

You never know what can come up through a drain pipe.  I've seen horror stories, which leave me leery of the scene.  I figure it would be best to have  floor drain covers  as a precaution, because of living in a rural area.  I try to keep the smell at a minimum but, if I forget to put liquid cleansers down the drain, then the smell can build.

These Eyes

I've been waiting the longest 3  years trying to get Medicare and the other areas of healthcare to corporate.  It seems since I didn't take the Part B of Medicare when I turned 65, they are going to take a peanility from my already small check.  Also, I missed the cutoff date for filing last year by 3 days so I had to wait untill Jan. of this year to file for Part B.  It doesn't go into effect until  July 1st of this year.  All this waiting has taken toll on my eyes.  I have lost sight in the right eye, and need immediate surgery.  The other eye has been carrying the load for my sight.  It's starting on the downhill slide as well.  Prayers for help with this situation please.

Thursday, May 30, 2013

Support

The world of the flat screen TV has evolved into a big thing and I have at least two.  My sister's husband had their large TV mounted above the fireplace in their livingroom.  It fit there perfectly and is in good range viewing for everyone in the area.  I'm sure they shopped for flat screen tv stands  to support their TV since it really needed to be secure.

Beauty



I never realized the beauty that is in the world until my sight started to grow dim.  Now it seems that everything is beautiful to me.  This is one of the many trees in my yard, which provides ample shade in the summer months.

Eyes

My eyes are taking a toll from all the waiting I've been having to do in the last year.  The Medicare part B won't kick in until  July 1st and then, they are charging me a penalty for not taking it at age 65.  The supplemental insurance needed, can't be gotten until Oct. of this year and won't go into effect until Jan. of 2014.  My right eye is almost gone, and needs immediate attention, so now I guess Parkland Hospital is my only chance for help.

Smoke

I've found that during my years as a gardener, I felt the urge to see if I could obtain seeds to grow tobacco.  A mere speculation on my part of course, since it's possible I don't have the right soil for such a thing.  Yet, the idea of it was interesting.  There's the perdomo  website which gives plenty of information on the subject of this adventure.  You might be interested like I was.

Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Today

I woke up this morning, much as the other days.  The sound of my chiming clock in the living room let me know it was 6am, but I awoke before it chimed.  Here in my home I find that the walls tend to close in after a few hours and the day seems to drag after that.  I know that I am blessed by having another day to move forward and live.  I am thankful even though it doesn't sound like I am.  There's plenty domestic work around here for me to do.  There's other errands that I need to make, and here I sit on my lazy duff.  Either way I thank the Lord for this day, my health and the life that I am living lately.  It's been quite a turn around after all the hard years of living and being strong.  Today, I am thankful for the release of so much stress, and responsibility.  It's a good day and that's a good thing.

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Daily

How often do you find yourself whispering a quick prayer in your mind and heart about certain situations you are dealing with?  Do you notice that quick moment when you rely on God's assistance in situations beyond your control?  I find this happening more as time passes by.  The small things aren't as important as the things we can't control  Therefore, it seems I reach out in desperate need to the only thing I believe to be a help during these times.  Sometimes I even find myself quoting a small part of a scripture, which comes to mind which was learned in my early years of church attendance.  How do you go through these tough times?  I am sure each and every one of us have these moments in our daily lives.

What To Do?

I had hoped that once my youngest son, got out of the halfway house, he would stay up there in that area to work and survive.  It's my sad fear that he will come back to the same area where the problems all began.  He's a grown man going on a teenager, who never really grew up.  He doesn't want to accept responsibility for the things in his life.  I can't manage him, if he decides to come here.  I have told him that I can't have him living with me.  It's as if he's not listening.  I hope God intervenes in this situation, because I don't want to cause a split between my son and me.  These things never go well and turn out to cause hurt feelings for years to come.  Prayer and trust that God's ability to handle this is about all I can go on right now.

Monday, May 20, 2013

Trust?

There's comes a time in everyone's life when they trust someone.  It's may not always come out the way they hoped.  If it does, then it was a trust well spent.  I've gone out on a limb many times only to be left hanging and holding an empty shell of what could have been.  These times are hard to get through, and  leave you with a bitter taste in your mouth along with broken relationships and hurt.  I've found my heart gets me into many circumstances that I often regret.  Yet, they say if you don't have an open heart to trust then you might loose the best thing you could have ever had.  It's my prayer that, today, I made the right choice.

Wednesday, May 15, 2013

No Money?

It's become a common thing to hear that people are filing for bankruptcy.  Loss of jobs has put many people on the streets, living where they can with no relief in sight.  You find this everywhere, and every State has it's problems.  The raleigh creditor rights bankruptcy lawyers  can assist victims in the areas located near them.  Clicking on the link will send you to the website for information, not in this post.

The Lord

The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom: and the knowledge of the holy is understanding. For by me thy days shall be multiplied, and the years of they life shall be increased. If thou be wise, thou shalt be wise for thyself: but if thou scornest, thou alone shalt bear it.
Proverbs 9:10-12
Blessed is the man that heareth me, watching daily at my gates, waiting at the posts of my doors. For whoso findeth me findeth life, and shall obtain favour of the Lord. But he that sinneth against me worngeth his own soul: all they that hate me love death.
Proverbs 8:34-36

Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Accident

Everyday, there's a horrible accident on the freeways in the DFW complex.  You can find that it only take seconds for your life to erupt into total chaos.  Being in a burning car or one that's sinking into lake water is something one doesn't think will ever happen to them.  Being ready to free yourself and other's in your vehicle can be a matter of life or death.  Having a seat belt cutter   can give you the help you need to make an effort for possible freedom and safety.
If there is truly one word to describe wholeness, it is peace. It is the absence of fear and worry, the God given ability to cease from striving and allow the Holy Spirit to move, heal, and direct our lives.

Kingdom of Heaven

Again, the kingdom of heaven is like unto a net, that was cast into the sea, and gathered of every kind: which, when it was full, they drew to shore, and sat down, and gathered the good into vessels, but cast the bad away. So shall it be at the end of the world: the angels shall come forth, and sever the wicked from among the just, And shall cast them into the furnace of fire: there shall be wailing and gnashing of teeth. Jesus saith unto them, Have ye understood all these things? They say unto him, Yea, Lord.
Matthew 14:47-51

Coins

I have a collection of coins, which I picked up through the last few years.  In one way or another they came into my hands.  I never invested in  presidential dollars  or other valuable coins, but there are many who do this as a hobby.  I found that my finances weren't equipped to handle this type of hobby, so I didn't hone it's abilities.  You who are interested can click on the above link and do a great deal of shopping.

Prayer

In recent weeks I have been through many traumatic situations, causing a need for comfort.  It's these times I realized that only a higher power, could take control of these problems that were happening.  Today, as I look back over the recent episodes, I realize that indeed I needed that help.  It seems that sometimes all we need to do is rely on the fact that there is a higher power than ourselves.  We need to lean on the comfort of this existence and give the stresses to it's safety.  Today, I am thankful for my beliefs and the fact that someone took the time to show me their value.  I believe it is this very thing which has helped me through life's horrific moments.

Monday, May 13, 2013

New Stuff

Have you seen all the new stuff on the market, these days?  There's a product for just about any electronic item you could look for.  I've been trying to stay as free as possible of the hassle to learning all these new products.  I can see that I'm getting antiquated and will need to update my life very soon.  I just don't know if my old brain is ready for the things that it will have to figure out?

Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Domestic

While having my coffes this morning, I heard a loud exchange of words from across the street.  Once again the couple were airing their dirty laundry outside for the whole neighborhood to see.  It wasn't pretty and brought back many memories of when I went through these same situations.  I feel sorry for the woman, who is going through what I went through in recent years.  She is living in one horrible hell.  The only way she can survive is to get away from him and stay away.  It's my prayer, she will do it before things get too far out of hand and he hurts her badly.

Monday, May 6, 2013

Nuts

You find this item in places that isn't visible and hard to get to.  Maintaining certain vehicles or warehouse machines, these nuts are just exactly what you need for the job.  You even see these on certain vehicles to hold on wheels.  The acorn nuts   are quite useful in jobs where strength and viability is needed. For more information, click on the link in this post.

Things Happen

Many times in your life things just happen.  You don'[t see the need  for them, but you handle whatever happens and move on.  A form of survival, one would call it.  Many years down the road after a life time of trials, experiences, happiness and pain this can happen.  You wonder if it's worth an effort, considering there wasn't a need when it happened before?  Today, an effort must be made or a decision.  I don't consider it demanding, but it's something that needs to be nipped in the bud before it grows into a monster.  So be it.  This I can do.

Thursday, April 25, 2013

My Ring

A few years ago, my oldest son had a Mother's Ring made for me.  He gave it to me for Mother's Day that year.  I seem to have misplaced it.  I remember having to cut it off because my finger swelled when it was on there too tight.  I wonder if I can get a list of  cheap mothers rings  to select from at this link?  Maybe they can make me one to fill the place of the lost one.

Children

I have reached the mark in life where I see things that are unsettling to my ego.  I realize that if you live long enough these things will happen.  May the 4th will be my oldest son's 50th birthday.  Now that's scary.I'm thankful for the long life and good health I have been blessed with.  Still this event throws my mortality into the light.  I shall hope that my last few year's I have left will be good one's.  I can try to do as well as possible, and make each day a good one.

Safety

I found a website which caters to the safety of women in today's world.  Listed on the site are work boots, and other work items.  You can also find a section which shows personal alarms  as well as pepper spray, and even training.  Attacks have been frequent against women, which causes many to try and arm themselves.  The items listed will give a person who is being attacked a possible chance to get away from the attacker.  To see what the website offers, click on the above link and shop.

Family Help

We are looking at a new era of our existence.  It's as if things are getting worse financially.  So many families have lost their homes, savings and even jobs which makes for a dire future.  Children aren't able to have things they need and the parents are at their rows end.  What once was a bright future is now a dull memory.  I often wonder how long America can last with the economic slump we are in?  It's not easy when you want to do right and all roads to help are blocked off.

Wednesday, April 24, 2013

Get Help

In California there is a need as well as all the other states in the USA, for mental health centers.  So many drugs are rampant and our people suffer from this plague.  I have friends who need this type of help as well.  You can click on Sacramento rehab centers   to get information about the needed assistance your family and friends could have.  Find the help so your people can survive and live a good life.

A Friend

How often do you think about a friend, who you haven't seen in some time?  Do you tell yourself that you need to call them or go see then soon?  Big mistake!  You need to get it done as soon as possible because your aren't sure if either one of you will be alive the next day.  I've experienced this many times and felt so bad later.  It's a certain kind of loss that hits you right in the middle of your gut.  To all my friends out there that I haven't seen or talked to in some time.  Please forgive my laziness and know that I am thinking about you.
Nita

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Printing

Church bulletins, memorial phamplets and other items are just some of the things needed in mass volume.  You can get  wholesale printing  by going online to the website listed under the link in this post.  Information you need is listed for your convenience when shopping for needed supplies.  I suggest you look around the website for sales that make your shopping more profitable.

It's Easier

Cremation has become a way to handle final rites.  It's cheaper and simpler to do.  Plus it cuts out the middle men and expenses.  It's a scary idea to me, but I suppose you don't have a reason to worry about it when your already dead.  Yet, the idea is offensive to me and I really have a hard time dealing with it. 

Thursday, April 4, 2013

Hey Mom

It wasn't long after they told us that you had a short time left that you actually did leave.  Last Sunday night on Easter you moved on to a different world.  It wasn't easy to watch you suffer to breathe, and we know that you are not in pain anymore.  Now, I must take over the role as the oldest in the family.  I don't relish the idea but I know that life has to go on.  Since I am only 19 yrs. younger than you, it's scary that soon I tool will be moving on to another world.  Leaving behind the only world I've known and the family that must take over after I go. I can only hope that as I do so it will be with dignity and grace.
Good bye, you will be missed.
Nita Kaye

Friday, March 29, 2013

easter?


Good Friday

It's "Good Friday", and basically it has been taught that this was the day, Jesus was hung on the cross. So, in remembrance of this day, I would consider this to be a very "holy" day. The day "Our Savior" died to save us from our sins. I'm sure that many will take a moment to reflect on the happenings, so many years ago. As we celebrate this "Holy" holiday, let us remember the reason and what he did for us. Have a "Holy Easter"............

Nita

God



Edith Easter



Edith Easter from Krista McKinney on Vimeo.
This video was shared by the Mother of Krista McKinney.......I hope you enjoy it......
Nita

Monday, March 25, 2013

Helper

When working out in the yard or on a farm, you find the need for an extra helper.  This can be in the form of another person or two.  It can also mean certain equipment which can handle the load of extra strength and aide.  Building fences are grueling tasks and a 4 post lift  would certainly give extra help in this situation.  Find this item can be as easy as clicking on the link in this post.

Soon

Last week my sister and I were given the news, we knew would come one day soon.  It's something we have faced as we watched our Mother slowly ebby away.  Both her and my step-dad are in the final days of their lives.  We do not relish the fact of this loss, but realize that we can't live forever.  Mom, has been placed in Hospice and given at least 6 months at the most.  All arrangements have been made for this time and we hope it will be a process with no trauma.  God, is our strength in the days to come.

Sunday, March 10, 2013

New Dad?

You see them everyday, passing out cigars right after the birth of a child.  New dads have a sense of pride at the event in their lives.  You can get macanudo cigars  by going to the website listed under the link in this post.  By shopping early you can have the items on hand when the big day arrives.  

Dear God

I've gotten to the age that each day has become a blessing, even if it doesn't turn out to my happiness.  It's all too often that people are dying and this is a loss that families suffer on a daily basis.  I heard of an acquaintance who lost his wife yesterday.  Then another girl told me her dad had passed yesterday morning as well.  This is very scary for me since I'm in that age range.  So, with each day that passes I hope for all good to come of it.  In recent days I've found alot of emotional pain, that goes with trying to care for a person in a relationship.  There are so many ups and downs that leave you feeling lost.  This is the point that hurts so bad.  I'm in that lost feeling at present and sure need some comfort to ease pain.
I pray for the comfort of the people who have lost their loved ones, and could you please find some in your answer for me too?
Nita

Girls

Learning to become great at a sport is often enhanced with an award.  It can be a team award, or individual merit.  You can find the basketball trophies for girls  listed on the website under the link in this post.  You may want to shop and see what the different designs are.  I'm sure you can obtain a reasonable price for the items you decide on.

Monday, March 4, 2013

Answer

An emotional roller coaster has been plaguing my mind and soul in the lst few weeks.  Yesterday, I had all but given up on the situation ever being what I was hoping for.  My heart was heavy and I considered the situation lost to my emotions getting out of control. 
Affairs of the heart are very touchy when dealing with the other person.  You never know if you are going to do or say the right thing when being around this unique person.  So, with my heart in my hand, I reached out to God in prayer.  I asked for his help to let me know if everything was alright.  See, I hadn't heard from the other person for over 24hrs. and it had been a tense time.  After I prayed to God, I went to a website on my computer to check out something.  After what seemed a minute or two, my cell phone buzzed and there was a text from this person.  It was as if the answer to prayer, came as soon as I prayed.  Realizing that it had come that soon, overwhelmed me.  The text answered what I had been wanting to know and gave me the relief that I so desired.  How big is God?  How great is his love for us?  People, I can't ever begin to explain.  I would probably start blubbering, if I took the time to tell you all the things he's done for me during my life.  So, I am giving him praise for this time and thanking for even more good that has happened this morning.  There are no limits on God..........

Dog Fence

Try as you may, some dogs just can't be kept inside a fence.  It's at these times you will need to take measures to control this pooch.  I noticed where you can get electric dog fences.  There's also the wireless electric dog fence  that you can activate when the dog goes outdoors. I consider this to be for your dog's protection as well as you peace of mind.  Click on the above link for more information.

Thursday, February 28, 2013

Dearest Father

My heart lives daily through the strength you give me.  The courage to press on is embedded deep in my soul.  How often I find myself talking to you lately about things beyond my control.  Sometimes I just thank you for the new day, when waking in the early morning.  Other times I ask you for help and guidance in matters of life, family, love and relationships.
Today, I thank you for another new day, and start it off with what can prove to be a busy one.  At this moment, it's first coffee time, to pull my brain out of the cobwebs of sleep.  Many subjects have already flooded my mind as I make the morning coffee and turn on some heat in the rest of the house.  It's a crisp morning and the old house is very cold. 
I sit down to my computer as I do every morning, and start the usual routine of turning it on, waiting for it to boot up while sipping on my coffee.  This time I'm hunting the kleenex to contain my sinus infection.  It's been a hard week on allergy sufferers.  I have a head full of the stuff and it's a mess to handle.  My weekend is planned and this is not what I need to cause any problems.  I do hope my sinus gets under control or I'll be too sick to enjoy my visit, with my friend.
So, I thank you for the help you will give me the next few days and pray that you will keep your guiding hand on the things that evolve.
Sincerely,
Nita

Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Home Repairs

 All up the east coast you can find remnants of a storm which took it's toll on those areas.  Virginia, was one of the states involved.  Some of the other states were hit harder.  There's help through  replacement windows in richmond  for those locations.  Many are still living in conditions, that are very hard to bear.  Disaster relief, helped as best they could but now more help is needed.

A Messenger

Often times I get to feeling down, and recently this happened.  I went on a social network and posted one of my other blog entries.  I forgot that this person keeps up with some of my blogs.  It wasn't long until I got a post from him on the "feed" that I wasn't "alone", I just thought I was.  To this he attached the poem "Footprints in the Sand".  I felt so humble as I read his words of encouragement.  I knew that truly God had this messenger as well as a friend send this to me. 
Sometimes, you get lost in yourself and forget the wonderful words our Lord gives to us in his word.  I knew that poem well and had read it many times down through the years.  Yet, it took the goodness of a friend to remind me.  Thank you Lord.

Saturday, February 16, 2013

Pool Ready?

 While it is still time there are many things to ready for the coming summer activities.  One of them is to make your pool ready for the fun times.  You can get new supplies to replaced the old or broken ones at  www.poolsupplyunlimited.com  and have your pool ready in plenty of time.  Do some online shopping at the above link, today.

Hello

Hey, Paul.........it's been a long hard journey.  You got out of the storm and now the rest of us are dealing with the aftermath.  Your death left a big hole in many peoples lives.  Our daughter was one of them.  It's without a doubt that she is loosing her mind.  There's not much anyone can do to help her without getting sucked into her drama and drug situations.  She's to the point of needing institutional help.  Since she is considered to be a legal adult, and that ties our hands.  While in the midst of all this she wastes away doing this crap. I refuse to enable her by giving her money when she is down.  It doesn't go for what is needed, like rent and general necessities.  Right to the "dope house" she goes, with her man trailing along behind her.  It's a sad thing to watch someone loose themselves in this.  I've done it one too many times and won't be a party to any of the crap she escalates.  You should be here for her to run to, cause all that "petting" you did back when she was growing up, helped make this monster. 
Sorry, but I had to speak my feelings about this and you were her father.
Sincerely,
Nita

NC Photos

NC, has some of the best places to have your wedding event.  You can get everything handled in a great package deal along with wedding photographers raleigh nc  area. Finding the one that suits your agenda is easy when you go online and do a search.  Most deals will be listed for you to browse at your convenience.  For more information, click on the above link.

Times

Each day you wake up it is a new time to do and experience things.  You can have a great day going and something come along to ruin it's beauty. A bad day starting off, can turn into a great day with just on small gesture or happening.  That's the amazing thing about life and the world we live in.  Interaction with others can give us these opportunities and add to the pleasures or demise.  Finding  comfort during these times in the fact that we are right where we need to be, is something you learn.  This feeling comes from knowing who you are and how you can handle whatever comes your way.  This being that you have faith in something which will help you through the tough times.  Sometimes we have to get away and be alone to find that inner strength down deep inside us.  Drawing from it gives us renewed strength to get through the day or nights ahead.  I find that talking to God, help me no matter what the situation may be.

Monday, February 11, 2013

NC Real Estate

The east coast has been under a heavy deluge of bad weather is recent months.  It's hard to find a good spot of visit when there is heavy snow in the areas.  Yet, when spring thaw arrives, it seems that you can find outstanding real estate southport nc  to consider purchasing.  Often there are great rental homes available as well for summer and family get a ways.  For more information, you can click on the link in this post.

Pope Resigning

The news media reports that the Pope will resign, effective February 28th this year.  Reports give the gist of his medical diagnosis as being frail.  I suppose that is considered a health term for getting old.  I know that my step day is frail because of his age and actions.  Mom, is also frail to the point of being bed ridden.  I'm sure he knows that he is lacking in the strengths and abilities to handle the powerful position he has been elected to.  Time will tell how things turn out for the Catholic Church's future.

LA Furniture

A family living in California's Los Angeles area, can find the store for bedroom furniture los angeles  by doing a search online.  I believe that it's a good idea to do your shopping online because of the benefits.  Not only can you see what you are buying, but get the price's, as well as shipping quotes.  Looking for a good sale is always easy online.

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Another Year

The year has taken off and we are still looking at what we got ourselves into.  January, has come and gone so the spring season is just around the corner.  Very soon we will celebrate the love of "Easter" as we Christians remember the sacrifice our precious "Jesus" gave for our sins.  Our hope is vested in this faith and we look toward the eternal destination it promises to those who believe.  May we take to time to observe this holy experience and be once again, thankful.

Friday, January 25, 2013

What Next?

So much has happened since I last posted on here.  The holiday's have come and gone.  A new year has begun and with it came other happenings.  I find that the American people are having a rough time dealing with the realities of our way of life.  The government has taken it's time making decisions, while some of our leaders are being lax with their actions.  It's getting clear that we are headed into a bad era.  I worry, but the Lord tells us not to.  So, I suppose I will back up and remember his words on the problems of our world and life.  Trusting anything or anyone but him and his guidance is something we need to remember.  Strength to get through each day is becoming foremost as we go about our lives.  It is only through him that we can have the hope for it.