Sunday, January 31, 2010

Planning.........

I've been in the position of gathering together information that would lead to decisions about an upcoming wedding.  It was necessary to help the engaged couple in their endeavors to make what would be an outstanding, yet personal affair.  I gathered several different styles, designs, fonts and colors in  wedding invitations  to show them.  It was something to watch as they looked not only at the designs but tried to stay within their budget.
The one thing I noticed about their ideas was their personal appeal to the families involved.  They considered the possibility of having a large wedding, but realized their budget wouldn't allow it.  They also knew that many of their family members wouldn't be able to attend if they had it in an exotic place.  All these things were just a part of the huge list of things that decisions had to be made about.  The bride's colors, the number of attendants, the attire for each group was chosen with consideration of later use.  Each person listed was considered as to their financial situations.  No one wanted to over extend the price of an attendant's apparel, since they would be taking care of their own needs.  The final outcome was to keep the wedding economical and still be able to have a memorable occasion.

Choosing .........

I've known for years that there are people who don't believe in the "Holy Trinity", the "Virgin Birth" and the "Christian Faith" as a whole.  I believe what I want to because I can.  They have their own personal way of dealing with faith, beliefs, hope, understanding and love.  I have mine, and as long as America says I'm free to do so, then I most certainly will.  Even if it became outlawed to believe, they couldn't change what is down inside my heart and soul.   If the other believers wish to think & believe their own standards, then it's their choice and I have no right to tell them otherwise. 
The Bible says, to place the information out there for them to know, not to jam it down their throats.  If the "Holy Spirit" touches their hearts, minds and souls, then they will know it and have the free will to go forth.

Exercise During Winter.........

Living in certain areas of the States, during the winter months can be very cold.  You have to make an effort to maintain during these months.  Exercise is less without some form of equipment on hand to utilize your time spent.  A good  treadmill  with a motor, can be of great assistance, when getting needed exercise at home.  You can maintain a good level of physical activity, with indoor equipment.  Investing in such items can be worth the time you spend finding those great sales.

Old Time........

I know that many of you have no idea about the "old time religion".  It's about as alien as a few other things that you've heard about.  My growing up era, was during those times and people were fanatics about their religions.  I can remember my grand mother taking me to church every time the doors were opened.  Sunday morning, night, Wednesday night, and any other time they had something going on.  Then there was the revival's that they managed to hit us with at least twice a year.  These were what you called the "old camp meeting revivals" and they would really kick up some dust.  They would start on Sunday and go through the whole week until the next Sunday, when they would finally be over.  Going to school was hard during these times, from lack of sleep and getting your homework done just wasn't in the book.  Sometimes they would hold a service until 10:30 or 11 pm at night, depending upon the presence of the "Holy Spirit".  Now that's another story......
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Friday, January 29, 2010

Insurance Quotes

If you are considering finding a policy to accommodate your family finances, then you might want to go online to shop for a  low cost life insurance  to cover your family.  You can type in your information and receive quotes within minutes or hours of you application.  There are several companies, ready to assist you in your search for quality insurance to suit your needs.  Online insurance quotes are easy to obtain, and you can compare the benefits of each.

Life Insurance.........

Back when I was a child growing up there was no such thing as having "life insurance" unless you had lots of money.  People who were blue collar or on a poor level of living, simply didn't have such thing.  Not only that, they weren't able to afford the luxury of life insurance.  Their money was saved up for that particular use, and if they didn't have enough to pay for a funeral, then they were buried in pauper's graves.  Today's world have a different outlook, but there are still many who aren't insured.

Pain Medication.........

 Our family recently had a member who was diagnosed with cancer. I'm not sure what medicines, the doctor's prescribed for him, but I know that at the end of his life, they had the poor guy on full morphine. Sometimes it's necessary to financially cut back on funds when trying to afford these medications. There's many different website's that offer online sales of medicines to people who wish to control their finances.  Since patients need this medicine to relieve chronic pain associated with the illness they have, they find it necessary to have a good supply of  tramadol  on hand.  Buying medications in bulk, can help with the financial part of the stress put on families who attend a patient's needs.
 I noticed that this website offers the pain reliever  tramadol 50mg  at 30 tabs for $45.00, 90 tabs for $65.00 and 180 tabs for $99.95. If you compare these prices to other pharmacy price's you will see the difference.  The tramadolbluebook.com website gives you a comparison to other online pharmacy centers price's.   Your doctor can give you a prescription for this drug, but you don't need it when buying tramadol online through this website.  You can look at the quantity listed for the price's of the  tramadol medication  and compare them to the other online centers you may encounter.  They have 24/7 service for you and will ship it to you through Fedex in a timely manner. All you will need to do is register on the website, fill out their questionnaire, submit your order and they will expedite it for you. They offer you a toll free number to call, should you need any advice or help. Other products are also available for purchase, should you consider looking around the website while your shopping.

Aunt Druzy

I was so young and small, yet I remember you and the way you conducted yourself around people. You were down right mean, and there's no getting around it. I remember as a small child you struck me as a person, who could melt the socks off of me by just looking at me with you horrible stare.
I never really knew you, because of the fact I was so young, and I guess I'm lucky on that part. You didn't seem to be the type of person, who liked anyone, and always wanted control of your environment. Outsiders, were best gotten rid of as fast as possible, to regain your idea of harmony.
I remember the horrible days, leading up to your death. The stench that your excrement, gave off was overwhelming. You had a horrible cancer, and the radium treatments, had burned your intestines, so badly that it had caused your insides to be coming out, in your bowel movements. I remember your excruciating screams, each time you would have the movements. Your sister(my grandmother), would come up and clean you and change your and your bed. I would be sent to another room, while she tended you.
The day you died, I also was sent to the kitchen and the door was shut. This was the way the people handled delicate situations, back in those days. I'm glad they did, because I was only 4 or 5 years old and really wasn't at an age for dealing with this type of thing, that life gives forth.
Honestly, I don't wish that type of thing on anyone, but do you think God, has a way of handling, people who don't act right?
Today, I find myself being too much like you and it really irks me, to realize it. I wish I would have been able to have a different attitude about my life and the people in it. Yet, I find that maybe, you were a victim of circumstances, as I have been, and maybe that's what moved you to act in the manner of meanness. It may have been your only defense to the actions of other people, towards you. I'd like to think that's what has caused my ways of dealing with people, who let me down or abused my good faith.
Sincerely, I hope that you had something in life, that gave you happiness. Maybe, if you had lived longer, and I had gotten to know you better, I would have found something about you that was nice.
God, bless you wherever you are.......
Nita Kaye

First Time Home Buyer Tax Credit

First Time Home Buyer Tax Credit
This is considered to be the best time to buy a home, and if you are already buying one the credit is still at least $6500, so you have a vested interest in this year's tax credits.  It looks as if 1st time buyers are going to get a good deal with the way the tax credits are being supplied.  The deal on a new home loan must be handled by April 2010 and the loan closed on by June 2010.  This lets the government have the availability to handled this set of tax credits in the same year efficiently.  
I'm sure there are other benefits for families, who are investing in a new home, but there are other means of information that I'm not aware of at the present.  This video gives you the basic's  of the government established tax credits for first time owners.  They also give the "moving on up" incentive to homeowner's whose homes are under worth under $800,000.  I've never been able to afford a home that expensive, and so I suppose I wouldn't be in that group.  This effort by the government to establish a more lucrative economy, is something that can work, but must be implemented in order to gain the necessary strength our economy needs.





Dear Sisters

Lets see if I can name, you girls
There was:
Martha Ann(miscarriage at 7 months)
Rita Joyce(born not breathing, CPR'd lived one hour)
Georgia Delores(Live 3 hours)
Judy Carlene(live 6 months, died from bad milk)
Sandra Faye (a twin to Becky, born not breathing, CPR'd, rushed to neonatal unit, at Parkland Hospital, lived 24 hours)

Well, girls' I just wish you had lived, but all of you died before getting a chance to live and know the world me and your other sister Becky, have known. It was a bad time, back during those years. The local doctor lived next door, but he wasn't much of a doctor. He did all he knew how to do, which wasn't good enough.
Then I guess you could blame the life Mom was living on part of the problems. I'm not trying to put Mom , down but she didn't do much but run wild for awhile. I was a product of the running wild. So, I was born illegitimately, with no father to look to, for guidance or love. I never got the chance to have Mom's love either, she gave me away, and went on with her wild life. I believe you girls, were also victims, of this ordeal, and you were the angels, that God saved and took back from the life you would have had to survive, under her rule.
Becky, was raised by Mom, but she made it somehow........I think it took growing up, to see what Mom, really was, that helped Becky pull out of the tyranny, she was exposed to. Either way, we finally have made a relationship, that was almost exorcised, by Mom. She didn't want us to have a sister relationship, and we weren't able to understand why? I believe she hated her Mom & Dad and used us as a means of hateful actions, to get back at them..............Me & Becky were the one's who suffered........although she had Becky conned for awhile. I've given them one more chance to include me in their lives, and if they take advantage of it, as in recent years, then they will be banned from my life forever. I've had enough abuse at their hands. So, I guess in a way, you girls, are privileged not to have lived in the world Mom, would have made for you girls. Yet, I would have liked to have known, you and tried to have had a sister relationship with you, Who knows, maybe you could have seen through Mom's cruel ways, and loved me for who I was.......... Your Sister!
Love to all of you,
Nita Kaye

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Haitians Still in Dire Need.....

Vast crowds of Haitians massed around aid stations Tuesday, threatening to overwhelm emergency food handouts against a backdrop of new political and seismic aftershocks.  "Right now, the needs of the people are survival and immediate recovery".  Aid organizations fear disease could spread like wildfire if thousands are still living in tent cities when the rains come in April or May.
A woman cooks at a makeshift camp in Champ de Mars in Port-au-Prince. ...
A woman cooks at a makeshift camp in Champ de Mars in Port-au-Prince.

Another Day........

Today's the day the Lord, hath made I will rejoice and be glad in it...........
What a beautiful morning to wake up to, and see the sun looming on the horizon.....
It's great to still be alive after all these years, and be able to enjoy each day as it comes.
I realize, that each day is a blessing and no matter what happens during that day, it is for a reason.
I truly am grateful for each day, that I am given to live on this earth and pray there will be many more, for me to enjoy.
I hope you can enjoy life to the fullest and be happy to be alive, while you have it........
Nita

Friday, January 22, 2010

Insurance

Taking a trip to visit my daughter, I decided that I would rent a car.  The rental agency didn't have a car ready so I had to take a rental truck. I had to invest in some  HVG insurance  to cover the vehicle while I used it because I only had liability on my car.  They had all these different add on's that you find when getting involved with a rental agency.  It finally turned out that I paid much more than I had hope to pay.  I still was able to drive a car that was new and not have the fear of breaking down in my own car.  My car is much older and when they get paid for, it's as if they know it and start falling apart.  I've spent almost as much money on my car getting it repaired as I did when I bought it.  It's been first one thing and then another to find extra money to cover.
I wonder if they make sure to build a car so that it expires in a certain amount of years?  It definitely looks as if that's the idea behind new car manufacture's.  I would love to have a new car each year, but my finance's won't cover the demand.

Saturday, January 16, 2010

United to Help..........

Former President Bill Clinton pauses as he speaks about the ...
Former President Bill Clinton pauses as he speaks about the devastation in Haiti as with former President George W. Bush and President Barack Obama, right, in the Rose Garden at the White House in Washington Saturday, Jan. 16, 2010. Obama asked the former presidents to help with U.S. relief efforts in Haiti after the earthquake.

Health Plans

the government is pushing us to get health coverage and with this comes the fact of shopping for health pland to suit our needs.  To keep the medical doctors and hospitals happy, you need to have good insurance.  The 
bcbsnc  can help you get the type of health plan your family needs.  I believe it's going to give what the government thinks will subsidise medicare plans as well.

Heaven........

  A sick man turned to his doctor as he was preparing to 
Leave the examination room and said, 
'Doctor, I am afraid to die.. 
Tell me what lies on the other side.' 
Very quietly, the doctor said, 'I don't know.'
'You don't know?  You're, a Christian man, 
and don't know what's on the other side?'   
The doctor was holding the handle of the door; 
On the other side came a sound of scratching and whining, 
And as he opened the door, a dog sprang into the room 
And leaped on him with an eager show of gladness. 
Turning to the patient, the doctor said, 
'Did you notice my dog? 
He's never been in this room before. 
He didn't know what was inside. 
He knew nothing except that his master was here, 
And when the door opened,  he sprang in without fear. 
I know little of what is on the other side of death, 
But I do know one thing... 
I know my Master is there and that is enough.'  

 



 


May today there be peace within you.
May you trust God that you are exactly
Where you are meant to be.
I believe that friends are quiet angels
Who lift us to our feet   when our wings
Have trouble remembering how to fly..

 

Weight a Problem....

I never had this problem until I got older.  Now, I can't seem to get rid of the ugly stuff.  A good quick weight loss  program, would sure help my feelings on the matter.  I really need one that works, not one that takes your money and then laughs at you.  So, a good review on products would help my judgement on the situation.  Weight loss is very hard to accomplish without help.

Dear Lynn

What a horrible way to find out you were gone. I went online to a website that finds, people and looked up your address and such. I found "Deceased" on the page, that listed date of birth and date of death. Needless to say, I felt a big loss, and a huge lump come in my throat. I thought, I'd maybe get to see you again, and have fun talking to you like we used to, and cut up with each other. I thought I'd get to see that handsome, tall man with the light brown hair, walk up with a smile on his face and give me that "big bear hug", he always gave. A thrill would always run down my spine when you'd take me in your arms and hold me. I never wanted to loose that feeling, but when you beat me so many times and left me with black eyes and bruises on my face and lumps on my head, then turn of our children and beat them too, I just had to give the "love of my life", up. I wish you had cared enough to be a father to your children, instead of letting them suffer, knowing their dad, didn't care whether, they were alive or dead. You lost a lot, not know your children.





Misty









Barney & Jessica
They look just like you......imagine that....
I would have done anything for you, and put myself in jeopardy, just to make things right for you and me. I loved you too much and you took advantage of it. I wish it could have been different with us and you could have been the man, I needed. Instead you never grew up and were selfish, with your ways of doing things. What an ego you had, you knew you could sweep women off their feet, with your "silver tongue" ways. You had a way of looking into a woman's eyes with and "I want you look", that would just melt them. I even saw an "I love you" look, that would erase any wrong you had done to me. You were something else, and yet I can never, forget the time we had together, and how wonderful it was to be your woman, when you weren't being mean to me and the kids. I hope you found a better place, and are doing great where you are.
Love,
Nita Kaye
P.S. Misty came into town this week. She's just a devious as you were, Barney's following right in her shoes........aren't you proud of yourself?

Friday, January 15, 2010

Start the New Year Off.........

Some people make a bunch of resolutions at the beginning of the new year, and never follow through on them.  One of the resolutions they make is to lose weight and keep it off.  This is one of the major resolutions, that never gets accomplished, because of several reasons.  Some of the reasons, don't even add up.  Laziness is one of the reasons, and loosing interest is another.  Keeping healthy should be of utmost importance at all times.

Hey God

I just wondered how things are going, with this world we're living in? Isn't it about time you did something to stop all the problems, we're experiencing? I know you've got a lot on your hands, but it's just getting worse. I remember you saying in your word, that it would. I just wonder how far it has to go before you will intervene? It's really rough down here and getting to the point, we are scared to leave our homes. I'm looking for some help here, and would appreciate you making an effort towards our needs. I know you will meet whatever they are, but some of this stuff, is just outrageous. Please, put your hand on our nation and give us the strength to do the right things. In your name I ask........
Nita
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Acne Treatment........

 My son, has been plagued with horrible acne, since high school.  He is now 36 years old and it's still very bad.  I have tried to get him to go to doctor's for help, but he says he can't afford it.  I believe him because I've looked at the regiments that are necessary to take adult acne treatments  and the products are high.  His acne is so bad that they would need to peel the top layer of skin off and I don't know if that would help.

Dear Goldie......

I know it's been a long time, since you even thought of me, and vice versa. I thought so many years ago, that you would become a great mother in law. How sad, that I was very wrong.
I never wanted it to be the way it was, but how it turned out, was beyond my control. I wish we had been closer, and you could have seen, how much I wanted to love you, like I did your son. His memories, will haunt me forever, as I try to rationalize, how it all came to a bitter end. Please, understand, that I loved Linn, with all my heart, and wanted to be with him forever. The brutal beatings, me and the children took, kept that from happening. To this very day, I still love the man, and wish it could have turned out wonderful.
Once again, you would have been such an asset to our relationship, had you been able to understand what was really going on, in comparison to what you were told.
I'm so sorry, to have lost you as a confidant, mom and friend.
Sincerely,
Kaye

Prenatal Care.....

I remember the times, I found myself to be pregnant with a child.  I knew that this was a special time and that I had to take extra care of myself and the unborn child.  The doctor prescribed prenatal vitamins  for me to help keep my body supplied with the needed nutriments for my health. Some of the vitamins, were hard on my stomach but I managed to get through it unscathed.

Dear Jan

You've been gone about 3  years, now and I think you probably, were totally worn out, from all the health problems. But, little girl, you had more problems, than that and I'm so glad that, you no longer have to deal with them. I know if you could, you would have stayed longer, to watch of the girls, and be as much strength to them as you could. I know how hard you tried to pull them back from the crap, they would get in. Yet, you must understand if you don't live a different life in front of them, you will reap what you so. They have really given this world a taste of the wild side, and so did you, for such a long time. You just had the ability to make money doing it. They do too except, they can't seem to get it right, with the law, and that's the difference. I know, that for many years, we were at odds with each other, and it took alot of water under the bridge, for us to become close. The phrase: "Keep your friends close, keep your enemies, closer", applied to us for a long time. :) , "they say only the good die young", I prefer to believe, "what goes around comes around".
I felt a loss, when you left, but am glad you no longer are sick. Farewell, and have fun flirting with the guys, you and I knew, that are there too.
Later,
Nita

Loosing Weight

One of the major topics around the world today, has been how to loose weight and keep it off.  This has been something that many people have invested large amounts of money in, trying to get their bodies down to a healthy size.  Some of the best weight loss pills  can cost a fortune and not even do the job.  So it's best to consult your doctor about the one that would be right for you.

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Prayers For Haiti........

Elie Isaac, left, and Caleb Roseme, both of Norwich, Conn., ...
Hatians pray for the people of the Caribbean Islands, at the First Haitian Baptist Church of Norwich, Tuesday, Jan. 12, 2010, in Norwich. Both men have family and friends in Haiti, one of the countries hit by the largest earthquake to ever hit the Caribbean Islands.
Rodelyne Fleurose, right, of Norwich, Conn., prays and sings ...
This woman's  mother, father and siblings are in Haiti, one of the countries hit by the largest earthquake to ever hit the Caribbean Islands.
Jisette Martinez, of Norwich, Conn., prays and sings for the ...
This woman, of Norwich, Conn., prays and sings for the people of the Caribbean Islands. Her cousins are in Haiti.

Sunday, January 10, 2010

Online University........

Have you considered get more education with the online universities, available.  I've notice that many people are opting for the online universities, that give them the freedom to handle their education on a more convenient time.
The degree you need can be obtained in a through these online degree programs.  There are major universities and colleges located throughout the country that offers ideal learning environments for students to advance their career. Working on a degree with an online university  can make life more convenient, while working daily on your present job.   The school MBA can be obtained  through these online degree programs and fit into your schedule.  They are able to give scholarships for rural Math & Science teachers which something to be considered if you live in small communities.  Graduate Courses are fully accredited in higher learning for Ph d's and Master's degrees in reading and literacy.  For more information, follow the above links and register today for your spring term.

Scriptures

And they shall bear the punishment of their iniquity: the punishment of the prophet shall be even as the punishment of him that seeketh unto him;  That the house of Israel my go no more astray from me, neither be polluted any more with all their transgressions; but that they may be my people, and I may be their God, saith the Lord God.
Ezekiel 14:10-11

New York.........

 The prestige of the town, is outstanding when you look all of the different business, entertainment and diversities of life.  New York, is full of history as well as full time entertainment.  The nightlife is full of activities, with many different clubs, restaurants, and other adventures.  During the day, it is packed full of business professionals, hurriedly making their way along the crowd streets to their destinations.  When in town, it's best to find a good  new york budget hotel conveniently located.  What you don't need is to be on one end of the town, and work totally on the other side of town.  Rush hour traffic, would make a person very late to their afternoon or evening dates.

Attacks on Churches.......

A court ruling that allowed a Catholic newspaper to use "Allah" in its Malay-language editions has prompted Muslims to protest at mosques and sparked arson attacks on a string of churches that saw a Pentecostalist church gutted.  Matayun is from Borneo island where the Catholic Herald says it has to use the word "Allah" to describe the Christian God in order to serve Christians who can only speak Malay.
It is something for us to notice, when living in America.  There are still countries and nations who try to impose certain ideas on the Christian beliefs and forms of worship.

Monday, January 4, 2010

Remembering.............

Last year was a bad year for some of my family members, and yet they have managed to move on.  We lost one of our members to cancer, and my children had many down falls attack their lives and finances.  I look around at our family and see how small it's become.  I know that it won't be long until it will get even smaller.  Death has a way of making these things happen.  I can only pray that our Lord, will protect us and guide us in the ways that are suitable in his eyes.  My hope is that not only my family, but other families have a more prosperous year ahead, and find a way to bask in the presence of our wonderful God..........

Friday, January 1, 2010

2010

May the good Lord give you peace, happiness, prosperity and love this new year.......